Who Knew Good Sex Would Cause So Much Sorrow?


The following is commentary from my little Brother G. Lee Jones.  G. Lee is a student at Tuskegee University and one of the revolutionary leaders of the local campus ministry, GeneZis.   G. Lee is definately a “JACOB DESTINED TO BE ISRAEL.”G. Lee’s enlightening perspective on sex before marriage is very true and I had to share.. ENJOY!

“The world’s philosophy on sex is so stupid! Having sex with a person on a consistent basis for reasons of EMOTIONAL DEPENDENCY will cause catastrophic havoc on your SOUL. When in the ‘moment’ all seems good, you may feel love like you never thought possible (aka endorphins) but you better believe you’re GOING TO EXPERIENCE A PAIN WORSE than any STD if (WHEN!) you break up. Trust me, just wait until marriage. It’s not worth it.

If your sexual experiences are motivated by emotional dependency this will be you afterward:

You’re left feeling empty, used…. When you find out your lover left you or they cheated, or decided they wanted to end the relationship, you’re going to go through a roller coaster of emotions. You will hate them, miss them, think about them, cry over them, and then believe you love them….you will be robbed of your peace of mind, your reason for living…. But that’s just part one. Part 2 will cause you to develop self defense mechanisms to prevent any of that pain from ever reoccurring again. Or so you think! Some of you will begin to loathe men….some of you will begin to loathe women. It will become difficult to trust, and yet…. because your previous relationship(s) were motivated by an emotional dependency….. Your soul will have to find that soulish high AGAIN and AGAIN through the avenue of sex with someone else.

So you will eventually lower your defenses to accommodate another lover. You will feel the same high again (but not as strong) and forget all that you endured from the first relationship and the cycle will repeat.

After while, you will become so broken on the inside that the love of God you will begin to believe is not enough. Emotional dependency eventually evolves into lust un-satiable. You will become incapable of discerning genuine love from others…. the emptiness you feel becomes more and more severe…. You will hate life. You may even begin to hate God!

Such people who fall into this condition take years to heal, most times…. Don’t let it be you! Don’t let bad decisions and ideas motivated by satanic spirits rob you of God’s best. Contrary to religious opinion, there is a knight in shinning armor who can rescue you from all your pain and love deficiencies. He’s Perfect. He’s called the Lion of the Tribe of Judah. He’s called the Bright and Morning Star! He is called the Precious Rose of Sharon. He is your PRINCE of Peace who can take the broken peaces of your heart and put you back together. No more shame! No more sad and lonely nights. No more one night stands. No more grief. No more pain. The Champion of Your Day of Salvation is here! His Name….the Wonderful Jesus Christ. Talk to Him!



  1. Elton Taylor said,

    July 30, 2010 at 6:07 am

    Great post! Thanks for sharing Bro. Jones’ thoughts on premarital sex. Sadly, too many believers STILL don’t have an understanding of the power such soul ties can have on their lives. This blog post provides an excellent description of what’s to be expected when engaging in fornication.

  2. July 30, 2010 at 6:18 am

    Oh Yeah…. this is fire! Praise God for this word. We must shine place this in the forefront in this day in age where “sex sells”…. that’s not okay. Sex before marriage is a sin against our own bodies, it creates confusion, and its sown right unhealthy. Again I praise God for this. God Bless the young warrior who wrote it.
    Stay Blessed

  3. Nedra Warren said,

    July 30, 2010 at 8:15 am

    man, i loved it. this makes me stand even stronger

  4. Nicole said,

    October 19, 2010 at 1:17 am

    I really needed this…thanks and God bless!

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